A loud voice unheard!

You can't live your life being unheard it's time people hear your voice. It's time for you to get out there and make you dreams come true. No longer should anyone wait their turn to get where they need to be because you'll get looked over. It's time for you to go for your dreams and understand that nothing is given to anyone who isn't pursuing their dreams. I have complete trust in myself and so should you have complete trust in yourself. You only have one life to live so if you live your life without pursing your dream are you really living? I would say you aren't it's time to make it happen and go for all of your dreams and all of your goals. Don't be afraid of rejection, rejection just means you're trying but there is someone or a bunch of people out there that sees your vision that understands your goals and understands your potential. It's up to you to catch their attention it's up to you to get them on your side so stop being a loud voice that's unheard and start being heard. Go for your dreams because no one else can pursue the dreams that you have.

Hollywood's it girl! Is it really a good title?

           Hollywood's it girl is it really a good title to have? Year after year a new hot young Hollywood starlet earns the title of Hollywood's next it girl but is it really a title worth having? Last year was Jennifer Lawrence and this year is Lupita Nyong'o. Tabloid after tabloid is raving now about Lupita and so many media outlets are discussing how they are getting tired of seeing Jennifer Lawrence in film after film. Why are they tired of Jennifer Lawrence because she has appeared in several major blockbuster films in just the past two years alone plus she has a couple more big projects this year as well. People are getting tired of seeing her face so much so that she's decided not to make another film for the next year even though in that time frame she still has a couple major projects to hit theaters so she's really not taking time off.
          Just like Anne Hathaway who was once Hollywood's it girl who people got tired of so she decided to take her foot off of the break in the acting world Jennifer's experiencing the same thing. Therefore my advice to Lupita is to do a couple of projects but not do too many. Heck even if you're going to do several projects in a year make sure they aren't all major projects. I think the fans along with critics and other members of the media appreciate a star who doesn't think they're too good enough to work on small projects. In fact I think it shows an appreciation and a person's love for film. I'm not saying jump at the next small project that comes your way but I'm saying be opened to scripts from smaller less known directors.
          A little known fact about Hollywood's it girl is that they get passed around like a porn star doing film after film because everyone wants to work with the hottest young starlet in the business. What they don't realize is that they're getting used and worn out just like a porn star. With every film they do it's like their value decreases and it's a rarity that their value increases with them doing so many films back to back. I would say Julia Roberts is one of the few it girls that has had an incredible career. I believe Jennifer Lawrence will as well and she shouldn't care what people of the media thinks haters are gonna hate so give them a reason to keep hating. I'm also rooting for Lupita to have success as well. I don't want her to be strategic in every film role she takes on. She has to be precise and understand her next role could define her career. On the other hand I think what the quote on quote Hollywood's it girl seems to forget is that Hollywood's always looking for a fresh face no matter how much talent you have and how much awards you may have received. You're replaceable and that should be your mindset you have to earn what you receive instead of having it handed to you. Some don't which is why once Hollywood's used them up and the constant pressure they receive to live up to the hype hits them in the face they turn to drugs and alcohol just ask Lindsay Lohan and Amanda Bynes if you think for once second that I'm making this up. They will kick you out of the industry. How? By informing other producers, casting directors about your flaws because even though they're competing against one another when they want someone out they want someone out. Just take a look at Megan Fox. Exactly how many major film offers has she received since Michael Bay? I would say little to known.
         When Hollywood wants you out you're out just ask Mel Gibson even though he's been kicked out for another reason that's deservedly so. When a Hollywood it girl gets kicked out it's like you're no longer of use to them they can find someone else. Look at Kristen Stewart they could've chosen someone else who was more well known than her for the Twilight series of films but they went with a fresh face just like they did with Jennifer Lawrence for The Hunger Games and Shailene Woodley
for the Divergent series. You're not irreplaceable just listen to Beyonce. Hollywood will move your success to the left to make room for someone new and fresh. Some it girls are still clinging on for dear lifetaking roles taking on roles that involves them being nude exposing their bodies in ways they never imagined to begin with. Some actually have talent therefore they stick around and continue to garner mass support at the box office like Sandra Bullock, Angelina Jolie, and Julia Roberts. These are women young actresses should follow and get advice from. Ask them not only how to make it in Hollywood but how to deal with the life that comes along with it and how to pick and choose roles. Don't think for a second you can't be replaced because just like so many before you there will be so many it girls after you.

Women aren't appreciated

"This is a man's world" lyrics uttered by the late great James Brown himself. "But it would be nothing,nothing Without a women" he reminds us. However men not myself but other men seem to forget the power of a woman. They seem to forget the power of women. If women wanted to they could end the future of mankind. If women wanted to they could put an end to life itself. All women have to do is stop having our children and slowly but surely the world will come to an end. Sexist men seem to think that without them this world doesn't operate. Well without women human civilization no longer exist. It's time women hear more and more from the man that they love how beautiful they are. It's time men show their woman the affection, love and gratitude that they truly deserve. Without them we will no longer exist. They bare our children the greatest gift any woman or man could ever receive. They sacrifice their health and their lives to do so. It's time we let our women understand how meaningful they are to us. It's time we let our women know that we love and admire the sacrifices they make for us. They change their last names to our last when we propose to them and they say yes. They carry our child in their womb for nine months. We have to and we must show them the love they deserve. My message to all women is "you are all beautiful, strong, tough minded caring, loving individuals who deserve the best in life. I'm appreciative of you all and I thank you all for the sacrifices you all make." "You're the reason my girlfriend exist, you're the reason why my best friend exist and why all of the amazing people in my life exist so I thank you all and I'm appreciative of you all.

What happened to more fuel and energy efficient cars?

Instead the gas companies and the car companies continue to work together hand and hand and present us cars that are aesthetically gorgeous but that's all that they offer. They offer us beauty why because we're all a bit superficial. We want to of course look good which makes us feel good and to many of us drive a vehicle that looks great. Our superficiality is forcing us to fall for the trick that the oil and automotive companies wants us to fall for. They have a partnership going on which is we'll make beauty stylish looking cars to catch the buyers eyes that will not be fuel efficient so they can both break bread at the end of the say. Enough is enough and it's about time we stand up to both the oil and the car companies. We not only deserve to have beautiful affordable cars but they should also be fuel efficient as well. Until we step up and make our demands car and oil companies will continue to brainwash us and make billions from us. They can force gas prices to rise with the snap of a finger. But what I've discovered is that they use foreign affair issues to be the quote unquote reasoning for oil prices rising when in many of ways these two do not go hand and hand. Let's take action and let's do something about this problem.

Pride can do more harm than good!

Some people seem to believe that they're too good to get a handout or they're too good to ask someone for help in their time of need. They would rather suffer than ask someone for assistance. The saddest part of this matter is the fact that the people they refuse to ask for some help are the people they care about the most. It doesn't matter if it's a parent, a sibling or any other close relative or friend. They would rather not ask that person for help during their time of need because they continue to let their pride get the best of them. Pride can do more harm that good for the simple fact that it can strain relationships if that person that you care about who also cares about you finds anything out about your situation. They will feel betrayed especially if they're in a position of which they can assist you. Don't let your pride get the best of you because it will certainly be a surprise to figure out that those people that are closes to you truly care about you more than you think. Sometimes it takes for you to reach rock bottom to find out those people who are truly in your corner. Believe it or not there are actually people out their that love you and care for you more than you think so stop allowing your pride to get the best of you. It is okay to ask the people you love for assistance during your time of need.

I can't stand assumptive people

Why assume something when you can just ask? Why formulate an opinion about someone based on your assumptions when you can just ask? In other words I can't stand assumptive people. It's a shame that people are so quick to assume things about others especially negative things. Oh he doesn't like me because... Or she doesn't like me because... When the truth is you're the one who doesn't like that person but you just come up with reasons to convince others or even that person doesn't like you when you're the one that doesn't like that particular person. It's annoying they're annoying and I can't stand assumptive people because they base their opinions on a person without any facts to backup what they're saying.

Love at first sight?

I don't believe in it and I never will. How can you look at someone and just know that person is your soul mate? To me it doesn't make any sense. A person's past means a lot to me and so does it to everyone else. You have no idea the baggage a person may carry with them when you first meet them. So how can love at first sight be an actuality for some people? Attraction means a lot to everyone. No one wants to lie next to someone every night that they're not attracted to in some form. For me a physical connection means a great deal but an emotional and a verbal connection means plenty as well. What trumps all of that? Is a person's past. No one wants to have to deal with a that has a past heavy past. Sure for me I must have a physical attraction towards a woman in order for me to even approach her however once I introduce myself to her and I get to find out more about her it will let me know from there whether I should pursue a serious relationship with her or I should just take a step back and let her be. Relationships works best when you get to know that person before you give yourself a title with that person whether it's a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship or it's a friendship. Honestly who would want to begin a relationship with someone with a violent past who continues to do the same thing or things that got them arrest? You don't know that stuff about a person from just looking at them I don't care who you are. You have no clue what their past relationships were like or what their past was like. Enough is enough love at first sight doesn't exist so people please stop saying it does. In a perfect world where everyone is perfect it may exist but this isn't a perfect world so it doesn't.