Monday, March 31, 2014

Single Mothers

Stay strong, stay determined, stay focused. A man shouldn't be your top priority your child should. A man doesn't define you the love you extend to your child does. I believe women are the backbone of our world even if other men do not. I believe women makes this world go around even though other people believe it's money. Without women no one will exist on earth so there's no money to be made by anyone. I know too many single mothers way too many. It's sad to say but it's the truth. There are just plenty of men who are unfit to raise a child or even care for one, they're fully focused on themselves. It sucks it truly does because time and time again women fall for the guys who will treat them like garbage. I know that women wish that they could see the future so they would know which guy or type of guys they should stay away from. Never should a man ever walk out on his children. Never should a man ever give up on his child just because he gave up on his relationship with the mother of that child. Men should provide a consent form that they will take care of that child not only financially but emotionally as well. Ever wonder why so many of our youth is so psychologically twisted or damaged? It's because of the love they didn't receive from their parent(s).But to those single mothers out there that unload their children on the rest of the world you don't get my applause. It's tough it's a hard road I'm witnessing my sister go down that road however it's not tough to the point where you give up or you become dependent on someone else. I will make it my priority to help every single mother I can once I become financially capable to help single mothers out even single fathers out as much as I can with an organization that's dedicated to you all. This organization will not be just about helping someone financially but it will help them find a descent paying job as well as providing daycare services that will help them get their lives on track or at least help them keep their lives on the right track. Single mothers you're not alone I'm rooting for you and your child to succeed.

Unfit Parents/Narcissist

Somehow it took me awhile to discover that there are just some people who aren't fit to be parents. Personally I feel that a person should wait until their financial situation is good enough to take care of a child and also the expenses that comes with taking care of them. That doesn't include the money it will cost in order for you to take care of yourself. Now I understand sometimes children comes along unexpectedly which forces people to adjust to the circumstances. For example people that's worked years and years to have a child like my cousin who recently received the biggest prize any person could ever receive and that is having her first child. I'm proud of her but although her child came unexpectedly because her and her husband have tried for sometime to have a child she's finally received the best gift she could ever ask for. With that said they were prepared and are prepared for the financial obligations having a child comes with. On the other hand there are thousands if not millions of people who I believe should hold off on having children. In one example a narcissist. Someone's whose priorities begin and end with them with no time for anyone else. These are the people that should wait to have children in my humble opinion or perhaps not have any children at all. From past experiences which includes relationships with aspiring models and friendships with self prioritize people I know a thing or two about these people. Now I know what you're saying you have to be concerned about yourself firstly then everyone else and yes you're correct. However a child becomes top priority no matter how self absorbed you are and so many people would never put their child's needs before their own and these are the people who shouldn't have children or should wait to have children. A child becomes your first, second, third and fourth priority on your list of priorities regardless if you believe it or not. Their health, the shelter that they sleep under, the food they eat all come before your health, the food you eat especially when their a newborn or a toddler. You no longer come first and I believe that anyone who thinks they should prioritize themselves before their own children are unfit parents and should consider options to prevent them from having any other children or any children to begin with.

Friday, March 28, 2014

Originality

                                           Originality is on the decline. Hollywood is furthering itself from originality year after year month after month day after day. It's time for new fresh films and television shows and I know that I can provide Hollywood with the boost it needs. Stop with the remakes please Hollywood let the classic films go untarnished. Stop with the sequels can we come out with new films. There are talented writers like myself who deserves an opportunity and I'm going to prove Hollywood wrong and show them I'm what they've need for so long.