Unfit Parents/Narcissist

Somehow it took me awhile to discover that there are just some people who aren't fit to be parents. Personally I feel that a person should wait until their financial situation is good enough to take care of a child and also the expenses that comes with taking care of them. That doesn't include the money it will cost in order for you to take care of yourself. Now I understand sometimes children comes along unexpectedly which forces people to adjust to the circumstances. For example people that's worked years and years to have a child like my cousin who recently received the biggest prize any person could ever receive and that is having her first child. I'm proud of her but although her child came unexpectedly because her and her husband have tried for sometime to have a child she's finally received the best gift she could ever ask for. With that said they were prepared and are prepared for the financial obligations having a child comes with. On the other hand there are thousands if not millions of people who I believe should hold off on having children. In one example a narcissist. Someone's whose priorities begin and end with them with no time for anyone else. These are the people that should wait to have children in my humble opinion or perhaps not have any children at all. From past experiences which includes relationships with aspiring models and friendships with self prioritize people I know a thing or two about these people. Now I know what you're saying you have to be concerned about yourself firstly then everyone else and yes you're correct. However a child becomes top priority no matter how self absorbed you are and so many people would never put their child's needs before their own and these are the people who shouldn't have children or should wait to have children. A child becomes your first, second, third and fourth priority on your list of priorities regardless if you believe it or not. Their health, the shelter that they sleep under, the food they eat all come before your health, the food you eat especially when their a newborn or a toddler. You no longer come first and I believe that anyone who thinks they should prioritize themselves before their own children are unfit parents and should consider options to prevent them from having any other children or any children to begin with.