Why do we disrespect the ones closes to us but try to impress the ones we barely know!

To begin with in life there will only be a few people and you can count them that will have your back to the end of time. There will be plenty of people who enter your life temporarily and just leave shortly there after. The ones who will have your back and will be there for you are the ones you should hold dare to your heart but we as humans for some reason don't do that. Some people abuse the woman or man they love. Some people treat associates with more respect than their childhood friends. For example if you allow yout supposed closes friends borrow money being repaid shouldn't be a problem especially if they work a normal nine to five. I've constantly heard don't lend anyone money without the thought that you'll never be repaid. Basically if you give someone money expect to not get it back. One may pay you back in a few days one may pay you back when they receive their next paycheck and one just just might decide to avoid your phone calls and avoid your texts. It might get to the point where you know they've received at least two checks by now and has decided to avoid you all together. You may just have to be willing to take the L but your friend shouldn't dissapear. That's something I don't get at all. No response to your text and they avoid your phone calls so you have good reason to say fuck you and that's what probably should be said and that friendship could officially be over all because of money. I guarantee you if they borrowed that money from someone they didn't know well they would've paid them back right away. Meanwile you on the other hand someone who has allowed them to borrow moeny before in the past got caught off guard by their actions. But now you know better. In life do favors that'll somehow benefit you as well. If you give someone a ride get gas money in return or if you bring someone to get groceries make them get you groceries. Not every time you should benefit because things should be done out of the genuinty in your heart but sometimes it's no problem with benefiting at all they are. It's a dog eat dog world for real and somehow you have to claw and fight your way through the world and find a way to eat as well.