Life is constant transitioning

In life you're going to go through constant transitioning and that transition can determine the success you will have and the direction your life will go. I can adapt to any and all situations no matter what. I know the kind of person I am and I know what I'm capable of. I know what I can and what I struggle to do. There's nothing I can't do so throughout the transitions life continues to throw in my direction it doesn't prevent me from living my life to the fullest. In this journey to becoming a published author I know what transitioning is all about. I'm surrounded but people I otherwise wouldn't have ever met in my life but their love as well as my love for books gravitates us to one another and that's why j love art. I love writing books just to make book lovers fall in love with what I've written. There's no better feeling than hearing someone express appreciation for giving them a novel they enjoyed reading. That motivates me to write more and more and I will not slow down. I'm a writer I love to write and I will continue to write nonstop because it's what I love doing.

She bad! She had to get fooled atleast twice!

i hate to sound like I'm an asshole but I know that I am one. I never purposely try to be one however some people know just how to bring it out of me. I'm a writer. I have a certain way with words that very few possess so I can obliterate someone with just a sentence. In this case I'm talking about very pretty light skinned women particularly my light skinned Sistas. For whatever reason some of you just seemed to get fooled not only once but twice. By fooled I mean have a child with the type of man that won't be there for you or your kid after that child is born in some situations even before the kid is born. They call me the real one for a reason cause I keep it 100 no matter what. Don't get me wrong there's plenty of bad light skinned women that do not get tricked however I've seen it happen so many times I'm surprised when I don't come across one that's threatening to putt heir child's father on child support. Everything happens for a reason. The poor decisions one makes can alter the direction their life was supposed to go in. So I'm sick and tired of hearing people talk about their hardships and how it's so hard on them being a single parent. You gotta make better decisions and don't get tricked by the flashy jewelry that's probably no even real or the nice car that he spent his life savings on. This world is crazy and it's hard just to live don't make it harder by allowing the wrong kind of people to enter your life.

Regret sex?

It's easy to say that females are always the one who might have regretted hooking up with someone but believe it or not guys have regret sex as well. She's beautiful, she's sexy she's a knockout and she's just all around down to earth the problem is she's a little psycho and clingy. But for some reason temptation takes over and you still have sex with her regretfully so. She's not going to let you go and she's gonna be emotionally attached which is the last thing you want but for whatever reason you still hooked up with her. Why? Because she is physically attractive. This is just one of the many cases of regretful sex. Hooking up with someone because they fit your description of the perfect whatever but behind that is perhaps a maniac. Another case of regretful sex is hooking up with a friend or just the first random person you come across after your relationship ended. That is by far the worse time to have sex. You are in a bad mental state and no good can come from it and you might send the wrong message to the person you had sex with and that's never good either. You might make them think you like them a little more than you actually do.

The importance of casting the right people!

I just heard Wesley Snipes was supposed to play Luscious Lyon on the hit television Fox series Empire. Wtf! Wesley Snipes really? There's no way it would've worked! Everything about the show would've changed. The cast who's playing his children would've had to be recasted because none of them look remotely like him therefore there would've been other actors selected to play their roles and there's no way it would've worked out with anyone else. I can't picture Wesley Snipes playing along side of Taraji P. Henson it just wouldn't work. Chemistry is the key when it comes to a hit series whether the people who play the characters like one another in real life or not. Chemistry is key and Terrence Howard and Taraji P. Henson has an unbreakable bond. Empire wouldn't be where it's at right now with Wesley Snipes playing the lead. Truthfully he would have a better chance at playing a villain in the hit show Power but not Empire. I'm glad he turned the role down because he saved a lot of people's jobs and he also made a hit series possible because of him saying no. Casting is the defining key to any show or movie. I can't see anyone playing replacing Shailene Woodley in Divergent just like I can't see anyone playing Bella besides Kristen Stewart. Can you Imagine Lindsay Lohan replacing Kristen Stewart as Bella in Twillight or Amanda Bynes playing Beatrice instead of Shailene Woodley. It's not a knock on those actresses however sometimes the bigger name isn't what's best. I could care less about casting Halley Berry in a role that she's not the right fit for just because it's Halle Berry it doesn't matter. I would rather cast someone from a Mchenry, Illinois that's a no name because she's the right fit for the role. It's not about the start it's about the person who can execute the work perfectly and the bigger name may not be the best fit for the role. Casting is key it can make a show or movie a hit and it can make a show or movie a dud. So casting directors out there stop looking for the big name and start looking for the right people to play those roles.

She's telling me a bunch of lies and I love it! By: Omar Black

Jacob loves being lied to by beautiful women. He can't lie he loves being lied to by a woman who probably doesn't even want him but wants what he has obtained over the course of his lifetime. Despite all of that he's strategic and he's very observative. He can basically see through people's bullshit. He allows people to get the rope and hang themselves with it without even saying a word. He knows exactly what he's doing. He acts quiet, he acts shy but it's all in his plan to get you to reveal your true self to him so he knows if he can befriend you or should he just keep his distance. The ora around someone says it all but its never truly uncovered until that person begins speaking and starts showing him who they truly are. He loves it when a female that he's physically attracted to lies to him because he already knows exactly what she wants. He won't give it to her but he'll play the role of the arrogant prick who loves compliments but the entire time he's peeped what's really going on. That's what allows him to get what he wants from the girl before she even realizes he got what he wanted and she's still wondering why she hasn't gotten a damn thing out of him. He doesn't allow his supposed shyness to allow a female to fool him and get over on him because he's everything but a pushover. He just doesn't open up quickly to anyone at all. He has to feel you out first. He has to get comfortable with you in order for him to break out of his shell. And even if he shows you hints of who he truly is you'll never really know who he truly is because he'll never reveal that to anyone. So he loves women who lies to him because the entire time he knows their angle. He knows what they want, the thing is they don't believe he has any clue what they really want but truthfully he does.

When that opportunity comes seize it!!!!!

Time and time again I see various football teams have an exceptional year and the next year they become completely nonexistent. Why is that? That's because most teams are truly built for one season. Coaches, management and recruits usually build for right now with somewhat of a thought for the future. For example a quarterback is building for now and into the future whereas a defensive back of line backer maybe only for right now to fill a void they didn't have the prior season. Teams adjust and adapt that's the reason why we can see a team go from 8 and 8 to 13 and 3 then back to 7 and 9. Why? Because these are the teams that are usually built to win it all for one season. For example the Kansas City chief a few seasons ago seemed unbeatable until there steam ran out now they're just a mediocre team hoping to get a top five draft pick for the next season. We see it annually teams that have a great off season as far as signing big names are even drafting a great player. They go from last in their division to first place then back to last place. When given that golden opportunity you better take it and run with it. In these teams sake win the super bowl. Now it's easier said than done but it is more than doable. Stop being a team that's just happy to make it to the playoffs or happy because this season you have mode pro bowlers than ever before. Win the ultimate prize the Super Bowl and then you can really be satisfied. Stop settling for mediocrity and start going for it all when that opportunity arrives.

Kids I don't want any

I want kids obviously however the women I've come across over the past several years just makes me say I don't want any kids. I'm Fucking sick and tired of attracting or being attracted to the wrong types of women. Why cant I just find a real down to earth humble woman who just wants me for me? Seriously I won't ever give up on women however One day I will give up on attempting to find the right woman who'll give me the child I would love to have. Now truth be told I don't want a woman with children. Well let me rephrase that I don't want to have a child with a woman who has children. I would prefer to be with a woman without any kids so we both can experience the indescribable feeling of us both having our first child together and sharing that moment which has to be beyond exciting. Now I'll be honest I don't and I will never refuse to be with a woman because she has a kid. Hell I've been with dozens of women with a child or more. Nevertheless I wouldn't have a child with a woman who already has a child I just can't see myself doing that. Truthfully I'll do any I've done my absolute best to avoid falling In love with any woman who has a child. It's just me and I refuse to change for anyone. I don't care what anyone's opinions of me is after this blog. This is my life and I'm living it how I choose to live it!